Oh My God!
I found this quote this morning and had to stop and say Amen!
Don't you just want to yell out, "Preach, Preacher!" I have not heard anyone lay out exactly what women really want in such a simple, yet dead on way. Desire. That's it.
Oprah and I talked about it this week on her show as we had both read The New York Times article on "what women really want" a couple months back. And again; if you strip away all the science, technology, research, graphs, pharmaceuticals, apparatuses, etc. it will still come down to one word: DESIRE.
Here's the real skippy...nothing makes a woman walk straighter, stand taller or sway deeper than when our mate looks at us with passion, with feeling, with a "wanting" that says "baby, you look like the last porkchop on the plate!" I'm serious; and any woman who tells you different is straight up lying or still trying to pretend she wants to be all things to herself.
Well right now, I not trying to be all things. I just glad I'm "Miss Thang" to him.
(To read the NY Times Magazine article referenced...just click on NY Times above. Warning: this article is very intense...and it may give you more information about your sexuality than you think you're ready to handle...but breathe and at least open your mind to the theory.)