2010 Resolution Handbook for Happiness

“For last year's words 
belong to last year's language 

and next year's words 
await another voice.”

-T.S. Eliot

I am resolving right now that 2010 is going to be a year to show RESPECT, extend KINDNESS, grow in LOVE, and PRAISE GOD for his goodness and mercy!  For all those in agreement, join me by taking the pledge to use this 50 point "handbook" to  improve your HEALTH, polish your PERSONALITY, strengthen our SOCIETY and perfect our LIVES.  

THEREFORE BE IT RESOLVED THAT I WILL:

1. Drink plenty of water. 
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar. 
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants. 
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm and Empathy 
5. Make time to pray every single day. 
6. Play more games. 
7. Read more books than I did in 2009. 
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
9. Sleep for 7 hours. 
10. Take a 10-30 minute walk daily; and while I walk...smile.
11. Not compare my life to others because I have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Say "I love you" to my partner...because I do. 
13. Not have negative thoughts about things that I cannot control. 
14. Invest my energy in the positive present moment. 
15. Not over do it. 
16. Focus on my health...because in the end...that's all that matters.
17. Make more donations to those less fortunate because regardless of my situation...I'm not missing any meals or sleeping on the street.
18. Not take myself so seriously; because no one else does. 
19. Exercise more and talk about exercise less.
20. Not waste my precious energy on gossip. 
21. Dream more while I'm awake. 
22. Remember that envy is a waste of time. I already have all that I need. 
23. Forget issues of the past. 
24. Not remind my family, friends or partner of his/her mistakes of the past. 
25. Not ruin my present happiness. 
26. Remember that life is too short to waste time hating anyone. 
27. Make peace with my past so it won't spoil my present. 
28. Be in charge of my own happiness. 
29. Realize that life is a school and I am here to learn and problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class; but the lessons I learn will last a lifetime. 
30. Smile and laugh more. 
31. Not have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. 
32. Call my family more often. 
33. Give something good to others each day. 
34. Remove all toxic people, places and things from my life.
35. Forgive everyone for everything...because it's not that deep.
36. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of  6. 
37. Try to make at least three people smile each day. 
38. Stay in my own lane and out of other people's business.
39. Stop worrying about what other people think of me because it is none of my business. 
40. Remember that my job won't take care of me when I'm sick. My family & friends will; so I need to stay in touch with folk who matter in my life. 
41. Do the right thing!
42. Call my parents...just to say thank you.
43. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.  
44. Open myself up to new experiences that take me out of my comfort zone.
45. Organize my personal space because excellence cannot operate in chaos.
46. Know that no matter how good or bad a situation is, it can and will change.
47. No matter how I feel...I will get up, dress up and show up. 
48. Open my eyes every morning and when I realize that I am still alive; I will thank GOD for it. 
49. Remember that God is in control...so I will let go and let God!
50. End my day with a prayer of thanksgiving because God has already promised that the best is yet to come.

HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!